[quote=""AudibleSilence""]I love you, but you really need to let that shit go Vira. You were doing a mean thing and you got called out on it. Are you more angry that Alan outed you or more angry that you got caught?
The split wasn't to be blamed on Alan or you..your shens were just another symptom of the overall problem. By your own admission you were using your admin/mod powers to pick on another member that you had personal beef with..that's pretty fucked up and not a Vira sort of thing to do, I was frankly shocked and disappointed as you are one of the nicest people I know.
People weren't sick of you for
that incident they were sick of the admins here for a string of incidents and breaches of trust..that was just the straw that broke the camel's back. This place like all forums was cliquey as shit...I'm glad it changed.
You were both wrong...deal with it. Life is too fucking short to hate someone. [/quote]
Yes, I'm upset that Alan outed me. If I were caught another way, I would have been surprised, but not upset about it.
Yes, I'm sure I shocked and disappointed some with my actions, but I'm human and Bobby crossed a line with me.
were sick of the admins here for a string of incidents and breaches of trust.
What incidents and breaches of trust
before that?? Of course we know about what happened after...but what
before?
Sure, we were both wrong, and while I don't
hate Alan, I still don't trust him as a 'friend' now, and I still don't agree with his admin policies.
This is not about rehashing what happened though. (detail for detail) I'm saying it did happen, thus these are my feelings.